First Date Advice- Avoid ‘Job Interview’ Questions
The first date can be an extremely stressful experience. You want to do the “right thing” and make a connection with this woman. However, you’re wracked with feelings of nervousness. So, you think coming up with the right kind of “first date questions” will help ease the tension.
Now, this happens to a lot of guys. They think the first date is about establishing rapport and finding out more about a woman. If they ask a rapid-fire series of questions, she’ll become attracted. Unfortunately, this method rarely works.
While the first date can be scary, the worst thing you could do is start asking her a whole bunch of questions. This can include things about her job, family, where she lives or any topic that only serves to provide background information.
When you spend the date simply asking questions, you’re doing NOTHING to establish an emotional connection. Instead you’re displaying the qualities of a job interview. The LAST thing a woman wants is to feel like she’s being grilled about her background.
Women don’t go on first dates to exchange information. They are there to find out if there is an attraction. So your goal is to steer the conversation towards topics which stimulate that emotional connection.
Instead of asking “interview questions”, create a fun conversation. Talk about stories from your own life. Tease her a little and playfully banter. Use her own experiences to hook into stuff that you’ve done.
The first date is about having fun and learning a little bit about one another. While it’s okay to find out a little about each other’s life, you don’t want to make this the focal point of your conversation. Simply focus on creating that sexual chemistry and you won’t have to worry so much about asking the right kind of first date question.
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